What Should You Wear to the Gym?

What Should Your Wear to the Gym?

You ever think about what you should wear to the gym?

Or do you just slap on baggy sweats, a band tee, and some sneakers and call it a day?

That’ll do the job.

But will it do the job well?

When it comes to gym clothes, we’re trying to accomplish two things:

Perform good. Look good.

First, the obvious.

Don’t wear:

  • Jeans
  • Boots
  • Dress clothes
  • Sandals and slides
  • Clothes that are extremely tight
  • Clothes that are extremely baggy
  • Tights or bike shorts as outerwear (just don’t do it…nobody wants to see that 🤣)

Perform Good

Your clothes should let you move.

Nothing restrictive.

Nothing that’s going to rip if you squat down, reach overhead, lunge, row, press, or deadlift.

Nothing that gets caught on equipment.

Honestly, you shouldn’t even notice your clothes while training. They should just be there.

Your shoes should be stable and protective.

No squishy marshmallow shoes (save those for running). No giant clunkers. No boots. No sandals or slides.

You should feel planted and locked in when you train.

Look Good

Don’t show up to the gym looking like a human duffle bag. Don’t look like a dork.

Your clothes should be clean. They should not smell like they’ve been living in your trunk since 2017.

Shorts should hit above the knee. Never below the knee.

Sweats should not be skin-tight. They should not be parachutes either. Same with t-shirts and hoodies.

Compression tops? Leave them at home unless you’re throwing on shoulder pads after bench pressing.

Tank tops and a-shirts are fine if the gym is warm, but they still need to fit right.

And try to coordinate colors at least somewhat. Don’t walk in looking like a smorgasbord of color.

Shoes, however, are where you can add a little flair. Be careful though.

Brickwall’s Gym Uniform

A fitted t-shirt (I like True Classic) or a tech tee (Nike or Under Armour). Black, white, gray, navy, olive, or sand.

Add a hoodie if it’s cold. Wear a tank top if it’s really hot. Same color palette.

Pair it with well-fitting shorts or joggers. Black or gray.

Finish it off with a solid pair of running shoes or training shoes. If it’s leg day, training shoes.

Easy.

Final Word

Perform good. Look good.

That’s the standard.

You can’t go wrong with a well-fitting t-shirt, hoodie, tank, or a-shirt.

Pair that with well-fitting shorts or sweats.

Put on solid, closed-toed shoes.

You’re good to go.

Simple. Clean. Functional.

Ready to get to work.

Sunday Sendoff #51: Rest

Brickwall's Sunday Sendoff

I’ll be honest, I’m not naturally good at resting.

My default setting is action.

Train. Work. Write. Run. Build. Push.

If there’s something to do, I generally want to be doing it.

Lately, I’ve had my foot on the accelerator pretty hard.

And while there’s certainly a time for that, I’ve been reminded of something important:

Rest is necessary.

Not optional.

Necessary.

The funny thing about rest is that you can choose it willingly, or eventually your body, mind, or circumstances will choose it for you.

You can take a day off.

Or exhaustion will take one for you.

You can slow down for a weekend.

Or burnout will slow you down for much longer.

That’s why rest isn’t laziness.

It’s maintenance. It’s recovery. It’s preparation for the next push.

So if you’ve been grinding lately, give yourself permission to ease off the gas for a moment.

Take a day. Take a couple days.

Read a book. Take a nap. Go for a walk. Sit on the patio.

Tag in your inner Zen Slacker.

The work will still be there when you get back.

And when the tank is full again? When your energy returns? When the fire starts burning hot?

Push that accelerator down.

Build. Create. Train. Work. Go after it.

Just remember that even the hardest workers need a pit stop once in a while.

Guiding Principle

Take your rest, or it’ll take you.

Something to Ponder

When was the last time you truly rested? And what hobbies, interests, or simple pleasures have you been neglecting while you’ve been busy pushing?

See You In the Arena

This week is just about over. Next week is just about here. Let’s keep building.

Brick by brick.

Open, Hyphenated, and Closed

I find the written word fascinating.

One aspect I’ve always found oddly interesting is compound nouns—specifically, whether they should be written open, hyphenated, or closed.

For example:

Kettlebell

Should it be:

  • Kettle bell
  • Kettle-bell
  • Kettlebell

Definitely kettlebell.

“Kettle bell” sounds like a bell that belongs to your kettle. “Kettle-bell” could work, but it just doesn’t look right to me.

Kettlebell wins.

And thankfully, the dictionary agrees.

It’s the same with words like:

  • Barbell
  • Dumbbell
  • Longboard
  • Skateboard

They’ve become such specific objects that separating the words almost weakens their meaning.

Another example:

Pull-up

Should it be:

  • Pull up
  • Pull-up
  • Pullup

I vote for pull-up.

“Pull up” feels too broad. It could mean pulling up a chair, pulling up weeds, pulling up a webpage, or pulling up to a stoplight.

A pull-up, however, is a very specific exercise.

The closed version, “pullup,” isn’t completely unreasonable, but it looks strange to me. Like it belongs in a completely different category of words.

So once again:

Pull-up wins.

The dictionary backs me up on this one, too.

The same goes for:

  • Push-up
  • Chin-up
  • Sit-up

Now let’s go the other direction.

Consider:

Peanut butter

Should it be:

  • Peanut butter
  • Peanut-butter
  • Peanutbutter

Only peanut butter looks right.

Even though it’s a specific thing, the open form somehow remains the most readable and natural.

The same applies to:

  • Coffee mug
  • Ice cream
  • Jumping jack
  • Swimming pool

And that’s where things get interesting.

There doesn’t seem to be a perfectly logical system that explains every compound noun.

Some become closed. Some stay hyphenated. Some remain open forever.

Language seems to decide collectively over time.

My theory?

The best version is usually the one that conveys meaning clearly, is easy to read, and simply looks right on the page.

Not a very scientific conclusion, I know.

But when it comes to compound nouns, sometimes aesthetics matter.

At the end of the day, I think you just have to take them on a word-by-word basis.

How to Learn to Love Leg Day…and Build T-Rex Legs

How to Learn to Love Leg Day…and Build T-Rex Legs

I’ll admit it: in the past, legs were not always my favorite thing to train.

And I’ll admit something even worse…

There was a distant era where I may have even skipped leg day entirely. 🤣

Like most guys, I loved upper body training—especially arms. Honestly? I still prefer upper body work.

But over time, I completely changed my mindset about training legs.

Great Legs Look Incredible

This is the first thing I realized.

A muscular upper body matters, of course. Most guys want broad shoulders, a strong chest, thick arms, and a powerful back.

But muscular legs add another dimension to your physique.

They give you the look of a serious athlete. You notice a guy with great legs. You know he trains hard.

And when you combine strong legs with a solid core and upper body? That’s the complete package.

Whether you’re in the gym, at the beach, out hiking, or out with your lady—your legs add to your overall presence.

Beyond Aesthetics

Strong legs also help you in everyday life.

You can move better. Run faster. Carry heavy things easier. Be more athletic. And building stronger legs can help support and protect your knees and hips over time.

Strong legs make you more capable.

The Key? Find Movements You Actually Like

Something that helped me enjoy leg training more was finding movements that actually worked well for me.

I like:

  • Leg extensions
  • Leg curls
  • Hip thrusts
  • Split squats
  • Stiff-leg deadlifts
  • Kettlebell swings
  • Heel raises

Not every exercise works for every person. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach.

But when you find movements you enjoy and can progress on consistently, training becomes much more satisfying.

Example Leg Day

Full Gym:

  • Leg extension — 80 lbs x 12 x 4
  • Leg curl — 70 lbs x 12 x 4

Pro tip: Your strength in the leg curl should be relatively close to your strength in the leg extension. A massive imbalance between the quads and hamstrings can increase injury risk.

  • Barbell hip thrust — 95 lbs x 12 x 4
  • Goblet side lunge — 35 lbs x 12 (each side) x 4
  • Machine heel raise — 100 lbs x 12 x 4

Power finisher:

  • Kettlebell swings — 20 kg (44 lbs) x 10 x 4

Home:

  • Heel-elevated “sissy” squat (heel elevated on weight plate or block of wood) — 60 lbs x 12 x 4
  • Stiff-leg deadlift — 100 lbs x 12 x 4
  • Dumbbell hip thrust (bench, chair, or floor) — 50 lbs x 12 x 4
  • Goblet side lunge — 35 lbs x 12 (each side) x 4
  • Dumbbell heel raise (using a stair, plate, or block) — 100 lbs x 12 x 4

Power finisher:

  • Kettlebell or dumbbell swings — 20 kg (44 lbs) x 10 x 4

How Often Should You Train Legs?

Once a week is perfectly fine if you’re already highly active through running, cycling, hiking, sports, or physical work.

If you really want to bring your legs up? Hammer them twice a week.

Just be careful of overtraining.

Heavy leg training combined with lots of cardio and a physical job can beat your body down fast if recovery isn’t on point.

Believe in the Wheels

Become a believer in leg training, gentlemen.

They’re not just for the ladies. 😆

Give them the attention they deserve, and your physique—and athleticism—will go to another level.

Sunday Sendoff #50: Be Grateful, But Not Complacent

Brickwall's Sunday Sendoff

You may have a lot.

You may not have much.

Either way, you need to be thankful for what you have.

Because it’s easy to focus on what you don’t have.

To scroll through other people’s lives. To compare. To feel behind. To think life handed somebody else a better deck.

That mindset leads nowhere good.

It breeds resentment. Bitterness. Misery.

But on the flip side, gratitude doesn’t mean complacency.

It doesn’t mean settling. It doesn’t mean shutting off ambition and pretending you don’t want more out of life.

There’s a balance to strike.

You should be able to look around and say:

“Yeah, I’m doing pretty good.”

While also saying:

“But I can still do better.”

That’s healthy. That’s growth.

That’s the way we live life.

Be grateful for where you are—while still building toward where you want to go.

Guiding Principle

Be grateful for what you have. But don’t get complacent.

Something to Ponder

What do you already have in your life that you’ve started taking for granted?

See You In the Arena

This week is just about over. Next week is just about here. Let’s keep building.

Brick by brick.

Sonny the Alien: The Tick

Sonny the Alien

Earth Log Entry #22: Parasite Battle

Sonny, Vanessa, and Chad piled into Sonny’s Tacoma after a tough hike through the woods.

Chad took a swig from his water bottle. “I think I lost part of my soul on that hill.”

Vanessa looked back at him. “It was barely a hill.”

Sonny started the truck. “It was a 10% grade.”

Chad leaned his head back against the seat. “I need electrolytes. And like…three burritos.”

Vanessa laughed. “You say that after every hike.”

Sonny pulled onto the road. “Your body appears physically incapable of moderation.”

Chad scratched his arm absentmindedly. Then froze. “…guys.”

Vanessa looked over. “What?”

Chad pointed slowly at his sleeve. A tiny tick crawled across the fabric.

Vanessa recoiled instantly. “OH MY GOD.”

Sonny glanced at Chad in the back seat. “…what is that?”

Chad looked horrified. “It’s a tick.”

Sonny blinked. “A tiny bloodsucking parasite?”

Vanessa climbed halfway onto the dash. “THROW IT OUT THE WINDOW.”

Chad panicked and flicked it.

Silence.

Vanessa threw up her hands. “DUDE!…now where is it?”

Chad looked around frantically. “I DON’T KNOW.”

Sonny didn’t look away from the road. “We have lost visual confirmation of the parasite.”

Vanessa twisted around in her seat. “CHECK THE FLOOR.”

Chad studied the floor of the truck. “I AM CHECKING THE FLOOR.”

Vanessa handed him a flashlight. “CHECK BETTER.”

Sonny slowed the truck. “This situation has escalated.”

Vanessa looked over wildly. “It’s escalated, alright!”

Chad lifted his feet off the floor. “Bro, if that thing gets on me again I’m jumping out of the truck.”

Sonny pulled into a quiet suburban neighborhood and parked along the curb.

Vanessa looked around nervously. “Why are we stopping?”

Sonny unbuckled his seatbelt. “The parasite must be neutralized.”

He carefully searched around the center console.

Then—

“…ah.” Sonny grabbed a nearby empty sandwich baggie and let the tick crawl onto it.

Chad recoiled. “OH MY GOD.”

Vanessa unbuckled her seatbelt and covered her mouth. “Don’t let it touch me.”

Sonny studied it calmly on the street. “…remarkable.”

Vanessa pointed at him. “Do not call that thing remarkable.”

Sonny rotated the baggie slightly. “It is extremely small. Yet humans fear it immensely.”

Chad looked closer. “Because it literally drinks your blood!”

Sonny nodded slowly. “Blood is evidently a highly effective nutrient source.”

Vanessa looked disgusted. “JUST KILL IT.”

Sonny continued examining it.

Then—

The tick fell off the baggie.

Silence.

Sonny looked down.

Vanessa’s eyes widened. “…Sonny.”

Chad looked to the ground. “WHERE IS IT?”

Sonny scanned the street carefully. “…it has escaped.”

Vanessa put her hand to her forehead. “ARE YOU SERIOUS?!”

Chad went back to his seat and buckled his seatbelt. “I’M OUT. I’M DONE.”

Sonny slowly surveyed the neighborhood.

Children rode bikes peacefully down the street. A man watered his lawn. Birds chirped softly.

Sonny folded his arms. “…the blood parasite is now loose within this suburban sector.”

Vanessa stared at him. “You make everything sound worse.”

Chad checked his legs frantically. “I can literally feel them crawling on me.”

Vanessa looked down at herself and brushed her arms. “UGHHH.”

Sonny nodded. “Yes. Psychological destabilization appears highly contagious.”

Chad pointed at him. “You lost the tick!”

Sonny looked genuinely disappointed. “…correct.”

Chad sighed. “…Whatever. Let’s get out of here. I need to shower and scrub my skin off.”

Vanessa put her seatbelt back on and nodded. “Yeah.”

Sonny took out his Earth Log device and began typing.

Bloodywood’s Cover of “Shape of You” Is Absolutely Epic

There are some songs that feel so locked into their original form that you can’t imagine them becoming anything else.

Then a band grabs them by the throat and turns them into a battlefield soundtrack.

Bloodywood’s cover of Shape of You shouldn’t work.

On paper, it sounds ridiculous.

A massively popular pop song by Ed Sheeran transformed into a crushing blend of metal, Indian folk instrumentation, aggressive vocals, and enough energy to make you want to deadlift a house.

But somehow…it works better than it has any right to.

The original version of “Shape of You” is smooth, catchy, and calculated. It’s built for clubs, radios, playlists, and background music. It’s a great song to sing in the car with your lady.

But Bloodywood’s version takes it somewhere else entirely.

The drums crush. The riffs sound enormous. The vocals erupt. The groove feels heavier—as if the song found the gym.

And that’s what makes great covers interesting.

The best covers don’t imitate.

They transform.

They reveal something hidden inside the original song that nobody else noticed.

That’s exactly what Bloodywood did here.

They took a sleek pop track and exposed the raw rhythmic power buried underneath it.

Honestly, it’s kind of a perfect example of the mindset we need to have.

Take something soft. Forge it under pressure. Keep the core identity intact. But make it bigger. Stronger. More alive.

Not destruction. Evolution.

And somehow, against all odds, “Shape of You” became hardcore gym music. 🤣

The song used to be on Spotify, but now I can only find it on YouTube. Let’s petition to get it EVERYWHERE. 💪

For more metal-pop epic badassery, also check out:

  • XO Tour Llif3 by Fame on Fire
  • I Knew You Were Trouble by We Came as Romans
  • Without Me by Wind Walkers
  • Stay by Belmont
  • Over My Head (Cable Car) by A Day to Remember
  • Call Me Maybe by Upon This Dawning

Remember Why We Do It

Remember Why We Do It

Photo: Murph, 2023.

Tomorrow, thousands of people will do the workout “Murph”.

Some will do it for fitness. Some for the challenge. Some because their gym programmed it. Some for all three.

But the workout was never really about running, squats, push-ups, and pull-ups.

Memorial Day isn’t about a long weekend, burgers, or sales banners hanging in storefront windows.

It’s about remembering people who gave up every future version of themselves so others could keep living theirs.

That’s hard to comprehend when you really sit with it.

And no, a workout doesn’t compare to war. It shouldn’t. That’s not the point.

The point is that voluntary hardship reminds us to be grateful for the comfort we have.

Running when you’re tired. Picking yourself up for another rep. Finishing something difficult when your body wants to stop.

There’s value in that.

Not because suffering makes you special.

But because discipline builds perspective.

You’re building to carry weight:

For your family.

For your responsibilities.

For your mission.

For the people around you.

The way men like Alan P. Mead built.

So today, remember why we do hard things.

Remember the fallen.

Remember why we build.

And keep building.