Some Muscles Will Just Respond Better Than Others

One of the weird, but maybe not so weird, things about building muscle is this:

Some body parts just grow.

Others fight you.

Indeed, some men will find that their biceps respond incredibly well to training. A few curls, a decent pump, and suddenly they’ve got softballs hanging off the front of their arms.

Other guys, myself included, can train biceps hard for years and still feel like they’re chasing something.

Meanwhile, their triceps, chest, or back blow up almost effortlessly.

This is just the nature of the beast.

If you’ve been lifting for any length of time, you’ve noticed it. If you’re new…you will.

For me:

  • Triceps
  • Chest
  • Lats
  • Abs and core

These respond extremely well. I can get great pumps. They grow. They get strong. They feel alive when trained.

Not surprisingly, these are my strong points.

But then there are the stubborn ones:

  • Shoulders
  • Biceps
  • Calves

Harder to pump. Slower to grow. Easier to neglect.

And yes, they’re my weak points.

Why This Happens

Muscle growth isn’t just about effort.

It’s influenced by structure (muscle belly length), fiber type distribution, leverage from limb length, neurological efficiency, and your ability to recruit a muscle under load.

Some areas are built to grow. Others require war.

You don’t get to choose the hand you were dealt.

But you do get to choose your response.

The Musclebuilder understands this.

He doesn’t complain.

He adapts.

What This Means

Two important things.

1️⃣ You must bust your ass on weak points.

The muscles that don’t respond easily require:

  • More intention
  • More focus
  • Better execution
  • More frequency

Not ego lifting. Not junk volume.

Precise, relentless work.

2️⃣ You must manage your strong points.

Because if you don’t?

They will overpower your physique.

Overdeveloped chest with no shoulders. Big triceps, tiny biceps. Wide lats, flat calves.

That looks unbalanced.

And imbalance isn’t just aesthetic—it can create strength discrepancies and joint stress over time.

This is where being a good observer comes in.

The mirror doesn’t lie.

Photos don’t lie.

Your lifts don’t lie.

Bring Up Weak Points Strategically

Here’s how you attack them:

  • Add an extra set or two when training that muscle
  • Add additional sets on other days
  • Dedicate an entire weak-point session
  • Train them first when energy is highest
  • Slow down tempo and improve connection

Sometimes the solution isn’t more weight.

It’s better execution.

Controlled reps. Longer eccentrics. Hard squeezes. Less rest.

You’ve been running that 3-2-2-2 tempo and short rest split for over a year now…this is exactly the kind of system that can wake up lagging areas when applied intelligently.

The Deeper Lesson

This isn’t just about muscle.

It’s about life.

Some areas of your life will grow effortlessly.

Others will resist you.

Your career. Your relationships. Your confidence. Your discipline.

The Musclebuilder doesn’t ignore the weak points.

He attacks them.

And he doesn’t let his strengths become blind spots either.

Balance. Awareness. Relentless adjustment.

That’s how you build a complete physique.

That’s how you build a complete man.

Discipline Over Motivation

You might try to wait for motivation.

Ride the wave when it’s there, and sit idle when it’s not.

The problem? Motivation is fleeting. It comes and goes.

Discipline is different. Discipline is non-negotiable.

It’s showing up day in and day out.

Even when you don’t feel like it.

Even when life throws you a curveball.

Even when the fire isn’t burning hot.

Discipline keeps you on course.

It weathers storms.

It holds you steady.

Moods are fickle. Discipline is unwavering.

We don’t wait for a wave—they do what needs to be done, no matter what.

Motivation fades. Discipline stays.

Cut the Fluff

“How many things can I do without?”

Socrates

Probably a lot more than you think.

A lot of modern life has become fluff. Distraction. Useless stuff pushed upon us by savvy marketers or peer pressure.

It’s time for an audit. Cut the fluff. 86 the useless.

Never in history have we had so much to choose from.

It’s time to get back to basics.

Sunday Sendoff #36: Show Up

Brickwall's Sunday Sendoff

Note: This story is from a long time ago, and some details may be hazy. The point remains the same.

Back in college, I took a strength and conditioning class.

It was one of my favorites.

The professor—who was also the college’s strength coach—told us a story the first day.

Fresh out of school, he was trying to break into the strength and conditioning world.

He saw that a local professional football team was hiring an Assistant Strength and Conditioning Coach.

A coveted job.

The kind that opens doors for life.

He applied.

He was invited to a group interview.

Now think about that.

Professional sports team. Prestigious role. Career-defining opportunity.

He walked in expecting a packed room.

Stacks of resumes. Top-tier candidates everywhere.

Instead?

Three people showed up.

Three.

For a job that could change your life.

They liked him. He got the job. The rest is history.

What’s the lesson?

Show up.

Even when the odds feel stacked. Even when you think you’re underqualified. Even when you assume “there’s no way.”

Because most people don’t even step into the arena.

They self-reject. They talk themselves out of it. They assume the room will be too crowded.

So they never enter.

Builders show up.

And sometimes…that alone separates you.

Builder Principle

Opportunity favors the man who shows up.

Something to Ponder

What’s something you’ve been hesitating on? An application. A conversation. A risk. A door you haven’t knocked on. What if the room isn’t as crowded as you think?

See You In the Arena

This week is just about over. Next week is just about here. Let’s keep building.

Brick by brick.

-Brickwall

We Should Celebrate Conception Day, Not Birthday

We Should Celebrate Conception Day, Not Birthday

We celebrate the day you exited the womb.

Cool.

But technically…that’s not when you started. That’s just when you made your public debut.

The real origin story?

Nine months earlier. In total darkness. Against astronomical odds.

Brother, conception day is the true victory.

The Argument

Think about it.

  • Millions of competitors.
  • One winner.
  • Zero training camp.
  • No prep.
  • No warm-up playlist.
  • No “Sad But True”.

You didn’t just show up.

You WON.

Your birthday is basically the ribbon-cutting ceremony.

Conception Day?

That was the championship bout.

The Existential Angle

We obsess over cake, candles, and getting older.

But we rarely pause to think:

You were statistically impossible.

You are the product of:

  • Perfect timing
  • Genetic roulette
  • A thousand tiny contingencies aligning

The world didn’t just “get” you.

You slipped through the cosmic cracks and made it here.

That’s worth celebrating.

Cultural Absurdity

Imagine the Hallmark aisle:

“Happy Conception Day!

“Congrats on being the fastest swimmer!”

Office parties would be awkward.

HR would need policies.

Your mom would be like:

“Please don’t talk about this at dinner.”

🤣

The Real Weapon

Here’s where it lands.

If you won the first race…

Are you living like you did?

You started life as the ultimate long shot success story.

But now how are you living?

Scared? Safe? Small?

Brother.

You’ve already beaten worse odds.

You can beat better ones.

Closing Rally

Maybe we don’t need to actually throw Conception Day parties.

But maybe once a year, instead of just blowing out candles, you ask:

Am I living like someone who fought his way into existence?

Or am I playing like someone who just happens to be here?

Because you won the first battle…

Now it’s time to win the others.

When the Rubber Hits the Road

You can do all the research in the world. Pour over every detail. Build the perfect plan.

But until the rubber hits the road? You don’t really know.

That “perfect” idea might fall flat. That “sure thing” might skid out.

Nothing’s proven until it’s moving.

Throw stuff at the wall. See what sticks.

Adjust. Improve. Try again.

Don’t just theorize—test.

Because clarity only comes through contact, and the road reveals what the plan might not.

The Right Tool for the Job

Having the right tool matters.

Try to screw in a screw with a hammer—you’ll only make things worse.

Try to hammer a nail with a screwdriver—you’ll get nowhere.

Same with scale.

You can’t walk across the ocean. You need a ship or a plane.

But you also don’t fly a jet to the next town.

That’s where the car, the bike, or even your legs get the job done.

The lesson: tools have contexts.

The wrong tool isn’t just useless—it can sabotage you.

The right tool makes the job possible.

Use the right tool.

Knowledge is Power?

You’ve heard it a thousand times: knowledge is power.

Somewhat true.

Let’s be precise: relevant knowledge is potential power.

Because it’s not enough to know “something.” You have to know the right things for what you’re building.

Information on climbing the corporate ladder? Useless to an entrepreneur.

A book on parenting? Noise to someone childless.

A website about home gyms? Off mission to someone living in a studio apartment.

And even relevant knowledge isn’t enough if it just sits in your head. Knowledge is potential power until it’s applied.

So don’t just learn it. Get out into the world and use it.

Knowledge is power…but only if it’s relevant and applied.