Sonny the Alien: The Door

Sonny the Alien

Earth Log Entry #19: Broken Portal

Sonny went through the apartment building front entrance. The door shut behind him.

THUD.

He froze. “…That is unusual.”

He turned, opened the door again, and shut it.

THUD.

No click.

He tried again.

THUD.

Sonny stepped closer. Slowly.

He pressed his ear against the door.

Silence.

He pushed it lightly.

It drifted open.

Sonny stepped back, arms folding, one hand on his chin. “…Building security has been severely compromised.”

He vaulted up the stairs to the apartment. Chad sat on the couch watching TV.

Sonny set his backpack down and began removing his shoes. “Chad. Building security is compromised. The front entrance is not locking. We must initiate emergency repair procedures.”

Chad glanced over. “Uh…isn’t that what building maintenance is for?”

Sonny walked to the closet. “It is all our duty.”

Chad turned back to the TV. “I promise you, it is absolutely not.”

Sonny pulled out a tool bag and stood at the door. “Then whose duty is it?”

Chad flipped the channel. “Like I said—maintenance. They even have an app.”

Sonny paused. “…An app.”

He slowly began putting his shoes back on. “That could take days.”

Chad grabbed his chocolate milk and took a swig. “You’re taking this way too seriously. What are the chances anything happens?”

Sonny stopped. Looked over. “It is a chance I am not willing to take.”

Sonny returned to the entrance. He set the tool bag down.

He removed:

  • A hammer
  • A wrench
  • A kettlebell

He stared at the door.

Then knocked on it.

Once. Twice. Then harder.

THUD. THUD. THUD.

Another resident walking by slowed down. “…Everything good?”

Sonny didn’t look at him. “Testing structural integrity.”

The man blinked. “…Right.” And kept walking.

Ten minutes later—

Sonny wiped his hands.

He closed the door.

Click.

He froze.

Opened it.

Closed it again.

Click.

He stepped back. “…Mission accomplished.”

Sonny returned to the apartment. Chad was half asleep on the couch.

He set the tool bag down. “Safety has been restored. The door has been repaired.”

Chad didn’t look up. “Good job, Mr. Fix-It.”

Sonny allowed himself a small smirk. “Mr. Fix-It, indeed.”

Sonny pulled out his Earth Log device and began typing.

Nothing Is Static

Things may look static in the moment.

But what you’re really seeing is a slice of time.

Nothing stays still. It only moves slowly enough to fool you.

Kids grow. People change. Relationships shift. Opportunities open…and close.

You don’t wake up one day “behind.” You drift there by standing still.

The world is moving whether you are or not.

So you need to change.

Not frantically. Not reactively.

Intentionally.

Because the only real choice is direction, not just motion.

Failure as Flow, Not Finality

You are not separate from your failures. They’re part of your journey, not detours.

You need them. Failure teaches what success never will…what doesn’t work.

Accept.

Learn.

Adapt.

Grow.

Build.

No one in human history has avoided failure. No one was ever only successful.

You’re no different.

The question is what you do next.

Hide?

Or use failure as fuel and forge forward?

Your choice.

The Tool Isn’t the Work

It’s easy to think the new app, device, or system will finally make things click.

A new task manager.

A new smartwatch.

A new “productivity method.”

We chase tools because tools feel like progress.

They give us the impression of momentum.

But the tool isn’t the work.

The work is sitting down and making something—even when it’s messy, slow, and imperfect.

Tools are multipliers.

They multiply what you already are.

If you’re consistent, they make you more efficient.

If you’re not, they make you better at hiding.

The key is identity.

Identity drives choices.

Choices drive behavior.

Behavior produces outcomes.

Tools only amplify what’s already happening.

So before upgrading your gear…

Upgrade yourself:

Be someone who shows up.

Be someone who finishes.

Be someone who builds.

Then—and only then—the tool becomes useful.

Don’t look for tools to save you.

Look for tools to amplify the person you’ve already chosen to be.

This Should Be Interesting

Got something on your calendar you’ve been avoiding?

Go do it—with curiosity.

Not because it’s easy. Because it isn’t.

Nobody becomes interesting through comfort.

The awkward party. The rough first date. The family gathering you’d rather skip. The meeting that tightens your chest.

We treat these moments like obstacles.

They’re not.

They’re training.

In the gym, you don’t grow sitting on the bench. You grow when the set gets uncomfortable.

Life works the same way.

Every situation you’d rather escape is texture being added to who you are—mentally, socially, professionally, and as a father.

When you lean into discomfort, skills sharpen. Stories form. Identity expands.

So don’t aim for easy. Don’t aim for comfortable.

Aim for interesting.

Walk in curious instead of guarded. Present instead of perfect.

Because the moments you avoid today…are the ones you’ll be glad you faced tomorrow.

The Slow Burn

We want results now. Instant. On-demand.

But some things aren’t meant to explode overnight. Some things need to simmer. Glow. Build heat one ember at a time.

That’s the slow burn.

The longer it takes, the deeper the roots. The slower the rise, the stronger the foundation.

They say the quicker you’re here, the faster you go. Flash fame. Flash success. Flash collapse.

Come up too fast and you burn out before you ever truly begin.

A slow burn forces you to build a base—skills, discipline, identity, resilience.

And anything built on a solid base?

It lasts. It grows. It endures.

Slow burn. Strong fire. Long game.

Sunday Sendoff #46: Get Knocked Down 10 Times, Get Up 11

Brickwall's Sunday Sendoff

Life’s been throwing haymakers at me recently.

One thing after another. Just when I handle one, another punch is already on the way.

It happens.

But I don’t stay down long.

I may be dazed for a second—but then I’m right back on my feet, throwing shots right back.

Here’s one certain thing: life is going to punch you in the face.

Knockout shots. The kind that drop you to the canvas.

When you’re up. When you’re down. When you think you’ve already taken enough.

Maybe it’s money. Maybe it’s your job. Maybe it’s your health. Maybe it’s something at home.

But here’s the truth:

The punches matter less than how you respond.

You try not to get hit, of course. You stay ready.

But when you do—do you stay down?

Or do you get up, dust yourself off, and get back to work?

You already know the answer.

Guiding Principle

The punches are coming. It’s how you respond that determines the outcome.

Something to Ponder

Has life been hitting you hard lately? How have you been responding?

See You In the Arena

This week is just about over. Next week is just about here. Let’s keep building.

Brick by brick.

Sonny the Alien: The Chair

Sonny the Alien

Earth Log Entry #18: Sittin’ Unpretty

Sonny arrived at the school and went directly to the office.

He approached the secretary. “Greetings. I am here subbing for Grant Miller. Physical education.”

The secretary smiled. “Oh! You must be Sonny Lake?”

Sonny nodded. “Affirmative.”

She pointed to a clipboard. “Just sign in there, and everything you need is on the desk behind you.”

He signed in, gathered the materials, and turned back. “Can you direct me to the physical education gym?”

The secretary smiled. “Of course! Go out of the office, take a right, third hallway take a left, pass two hallways, then another right. It’ll be on your left.”

The phone rang. The secretary looked at the phone. “Sorry, I need to take this.”

Sonny nodded, and exited the office.

Ten minutes later—and with the assistance of four separate staff members—Sonny located the gym.

He entered the office. Found the desk. “This appears to be the command station.”

He set his bag down.

And then he saw the chair.

It was old. Stained. Leaning slightly to one side like it had given up on life years ago.

He circled it once. Twice. “The seat is structurally and hygienically compromised.”

He pressed a finger into the cushion. It didn’t bounce back. It absorbed.

Sonny froze. “…Unacceptable.”

He leaned closer.

There were stains. Dark ones. Light ones. Ones that had…layers.

He narrowed his eyes. “…Biological. Highly probable.”

He began to sit.

Paused mid-descent.

Then shot upright like he’d been electrocuted.

“NO.”

He stared at the chair, stroking his chin. “This command chair requires extreme measures.”

Sonny searched around the office and found a mop, a spray bottle, a roll of paper towels, duct tape, and a baseball bat.

He checked his watch. “Twenty minutes until class starts.” Then looked back at the chair. “Time is limited.”

He went to work.

Fifteen minutes later…

He stepped back.

The chair looked…better.

Not good. But survivable.

He gently set the baseball bat aside.

Then sat down. Carefully.

Slowly leaned back. Tested the structure. “Acceptable…you may live.”

Just then, a student popped his head in. “Yo, you the sub for Mr. Miller?”

Sonny nodded. “Yes I am.”

The student pointed toward a bag of dodgeballs near the entrance. “Are we playing dodgeball today?”

Sonny considered this. Then nodded. “Yes. You will be building durability, problem-solving skills, and teamwork through dodgeball.”

The kid lit up. “Yesssss!” He sprinted back into the gym.

Sonny stood, and then looked down at the chair.

He took out his Earth Log device and began typing.